Emphasize the Positive in Teacher Requests: Increasing Student Compliance

When an instructor's request has a positive 'spin', that teacher is less likely to trigger a power struggle and more likely to gain student compliance.

Type: Core Instruction, Student Strategy

Procedure: 
Whenever possible, the teacher avoids using negative phrasing (e.g., "If you don't return to your seat, I can’t help you with your assignment"). Instead, the teacher restates requests in positive terms (e.g., "I will be over to help you on the assignment just as soon as you return to your seat").

Source: http://www.interventioncentral.org/tools/behavior-intervention-planner

Research Citation: Braithwaite, R. (2001). Managing aggression. New York: Routledge.